{"id":578,"date":"2013-04-03T08:47:21","date_gmt":"2013-04-03T14:47:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/?p=578"},"modified":"2013-04-03T08:47:21","modified_gmt":"2013-04-03T14:47:21","slug":"5-rules-of-respect-building-with-your-horse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/training-tips\/5-rules-of-respect-building-with-your-horse\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Rules of Respect Building With Your Horse"},"content":{"rendered":"<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/trustjacker\/css\/authover.css\" media=\"screen\" \/>\r\n\t       <link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/trustjacker\/css\/simplemodel.css\" media=\"screen\"\/>\r\n\t          <script type=\"text\/javascript\"\r\n\tsrc=\"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/trustjacker\/js\/jquery-1.7.2.min.js\"><\/script>\r\n           <script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/trustjacker\/js\/jquery.simplemodal.js\"><\/script>\r\n           <script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"http:\/\/horsetrainingresources.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/trustjacker\/js\/authover.js\"><\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\r\n\t\t\t\tvar jq = jQuery.noConflict();\r\n\t\t\t\tfunction openPopup(url,width,height,delay,useajax,iframe,exitt){\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\talert(url);\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\tauthover.configure({\r\n\t\t\t\t\tiFrameAttribute : {\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\"name\" : \"autFrame\",\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\"id\" : \"authFrame\",\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\"src\" : \"http:\/\/wikipedia.com\",\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\"height\" : \"100%\",\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\"width\" : \"100%\"\r\n\t\t\t\t},\r\n\t\t\t\tmodalContent : url,\r\n\t\t\t\twidth : width,\r\n\t\t\t\theight : height,\r\n\t\t\t\tdelay : delay,\r\n\t\t\t\tpopupUseAjax: 0,\r\n\t\t\t\ttargetUseIframe: iframe,\r\n\t\t\t\tpopupIsRedirect: useajax,\r\n\t\t\t\texitAlertText: exitt\r\n\t\t\t\t});\r\n\t\t\t\tauthover.triggerModal();\r\nreturn false;\r\n\t\t\t\t}\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/script><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>5 Rules of Respect Building With Your Horse<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;d be surprised&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-765 imgbdr alignleft\" style=\"border: 3px solid black; margin: 5px 8px;\" title=\"Brad 2 Space 200w\" src=\"http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Brad-2-Space-200w.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"168\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Respect from your horse isn&#8217;t just<br \/>\nabout making him move and keeping him<br \/>\nout of your space.<\/p>\n<p>Like a recipe for a cake, getting<br \/>\nrespect from your horse is made up of<br \/>\ndifferent ingredients.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Brad Myers says this in his DVD:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0 &#8220;You have to earn the horse&#8217;s<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>\u00a0 \u00a0respect&#8230;you cannot demand it.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Brad Meyers - Little Things DVD\" href=\"http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Demanding your horse&#8217;s respect is a<br \/>\nway to get yourself hurt.<\/p>\n<p>No one, not even horses, like to be<br \/>\nruled by an iron hand.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, says Brad,<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;you get the respect..<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8212; by being the leader,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8212; by educating your horse,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8212; by showing them,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8212; by preparing them,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8212; and having feel.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s go over these one by one.<\/p>\n<p>First, being the leader.<\/p>\n<p>Being the leader means just that.<\/p>\n<p>You never allow him to get in your space<br \/>\nbut you can go into his.<\/p>\n<p>Being the leader means when you tell him<br \/>\nhe can eat&#8230;then he can eat.<\/p>\n<p>And here&#8217;s something people miss.<\/p>\n<p>When he&#8217;s eating&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Leave Him Alone!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s his time &#8211; not yours.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, there&#8217;s a little-known yet powerful<br \/>\n&#8220;Respect Destroyer&#8221; that happens when you&#8217;re<br \/>\nwith your horse when he eats.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s one of the greatest tips ever revealed<br \/>\nby a trainer and I give Brad total credit for it.<\/p>\n<p>Onward.<\/p>\n<p>Next, educating your horse.<\/p>\n<p>He needs to know what you want.<\/p>\n<p>When he knows what you want, he&#8217;s not<br \/>\nconfused and therefore has more confidence.<\/p>\n<p>When he has confidence around you, he feels<br \/>\ngood about you.<\/p>\n<p>How do YOU feel around people when you feel<br \/>\nconfident when being with them?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you have more respect for them?<\/p>\n<p>Also, when you educate your horse, you&#8217;re<br \/>\ngetting them to move their feet and that<br \/>\nbuilds respect for you in their mind.<br \/>\n(As long as you&#8217;re fair)<\/p>\n<p>Next, showing them.<\/p>\n<p>This is much like educating them.<\/p>\n<p>Show them they can trust you.<\/p>\n<p>Show them you are the leader and you will<br \/>\ntake care of them.<\/p>\n<p>Show them they don&#8217;t have to freak out<br \/>\nover a plastic sack.<\/p>\n<p>Preparing them is the next.<\/p>\n<p>An example is giving them a cue before<br \/>\nyou ask them to do something.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t just demand it without a prompt.<\/p>\n<p>Preparing also comes in the form of<br \/>\nwarming up before exercising.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly, and very important, have feel.<\/p>\n<p>Feel is kinda hard to explain but is<br \/>\ncritical.<\/p>\n<p>The best definition of &#8220;Feel&#8221; I ever<br \/>\nheard was from Brad Myers.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to know more about Brad,<br \/>\nclick the following:<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Brad Meyers - Little Things DVD\" href=\"http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Brad says &#8220;Feel&#8221; is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. Timing<br \/>\n2. Balance<br \/>\n3. Release<\/p>\n<p>Timing is knowing &#8220;when&#8221; to ask your<br \/>\nhorse something.<\/p>\n<p>Balance is knowing, for example, if you<br \/>\nneed to apply more pressure&#8230;or less.<\/p>\n<p>How much is too much?<br \/>\nHow much is not enough?<\/p>\n<p>Release is, of course, releasing the<br \/>\npressure so the horse seeks the release and<br \/>\ntherefore learns what to do.<\/p>\n<p>No doubt there&#8217;s a lot to know about<br \/>\nrespect. There&#8217;s far more to it than what I<br \/>\njust told you &#8211; but I couldn&#8217;t explain it<br \/>\nbetter than what Brad does.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, if you don&#8217;t own this DVD yet<br \/>\nthen you should.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s one of the most important ones we<br \/>\nhave available.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Brad Meyers - Little Things DVD\" href=\"http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.horsetrainingresources.com\/dvds\/meyers-little-things\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I would suggest, that anytime you watch any of<br \/>\nour DVDs or read our books, that you study what&#8217;s<br \/>\ngoing on. These professional trainers have developed<br \/>\nand revealed dozens of tips, methods, techniques and even<br \/>\nsome of their &#8220;secrets&#8221; that they are teaching you.<\/p>\n<p>Please don&#8217;t watch them to be &#8220;entertained&#8221;. They are<br \/>\nnot for that purpose. But if you will watch each one<br \/>\nmultiple times &#8211; at least 3 times &#8211; you will pick up<br \/>\nall these training &#8220;gems&#8221; that you can put into your<br \/>\nbag of tricks to use for years to come.<\/p>\n<p>Our training materials should be considered an<br \/>\ninvestment in you &#8211; and ultimately in your horses.<\/p>\n<p>But it all starts with you.<\/p>\n<p>Study what they&#8217;re showing. You&#8217;ll be surprised at<br \/>\nhow much more you can pick up if you&#8217;re actively<br \/>\nlooking for the principles they want you learn.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s it for today&#8230;stay safe out there.<\/p>\n<p>Charlie<\/p>\n<p>P.S. 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