Horse Training Is Like A Riddle

“Horse Training Is Like A Riddle”

I hope your Christmas was enjoyable!  We had all the
kids here for breakfast and dinner and really had a
nice time talking and reflecting on the true gift that
Christ Jesus gave to us.

We played board games, ping pong, and simply had a fun time.

Now that 3 of our 5 kids are out of the house, the
times we can all get together are very special.
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You often have to think through it
to figure it out.

Some riddles are easily solved.

Some are very difficult.

Same with horse training.

Take this riddle for instance.

What is it that grows larger the
more you take away from it?

What a weird question because it
doesn’t make sense…until you know the
answer.

And getting your horse to do or
not do something is very much like that.

But the good news is this.

The more you work with your horse
the more you can figure out his riddles.

But you’ll come across riddles you
simply can’t get.

So how do you solve them?

One way is to get a knowledgeable
horseman to help you.

If one’s not available or you want
to figure it out yourself, then you have to
step back think about it.

You may be working with your horse
and you’re just not gettin’ him doing what
you want.

Maybe you’re in the round pen and
your frustration level is shooting through
the roof.

Understand that it’s okay to stop
for a bit and do anything with the horse.

Just leave the round pen for a while.

Go in the house and get a drink of
water.

The idea is to redirect your mind to
something else because when you’re feeling the
frustration, that is often all you can think of.

When that’s all you can think of, then
it’s hard to think through the problem.

So after you’ve got your drink of water
then your mind will have settled down and you
can start thinking through the problem.

And even if you don’t come up with
a solution, you’ve calmed down enough that you
can actually invent one after you get back into
the round pen again.

The thing about horses is there is lots
that can go wrong – at least,…it seems that way.

It seems that way because when you lack
the knowledge and then try to fix something and it
doesn’t work, you feel like you’re out of ideas.

Mostly, the problem is there’s something
you just don’t know and you must find the answer.

That’s the journey.

Yes it can be frustrating.

But it can be fun too.

This is why I urge you to learn from lots
of people.

And this is why I constantly seek new ones
because everyone does it different enough at times
that you get some great tips, tricks, and techniques
without having to travel all over to get them.

Take JJ Rydberg for instance.

One of his biggest “No No’s” is making the
horse mad.

Have you ever made your horse mad?

If you have, then you know how unlikely it
is you will teach him something while he’s mad.

Some horses get mad r-e-a-l easy.

Some seem to never get mad.

Some are in between.

And some are closer to one end of the
spectrum than the other.

Where does your horse fit?

Here’s a BIG clue for you.

Understand your horse’s personality and
you understand better how to work with him.

Here’s what I mean.

If your horse will do what you ask but
he won’t tolerate much of it after a few minutes,
then you say to yourself, “I can only ask him so
much and then we need to do something else.”

Heck, your horse may only allow you to
ask him something 4-5 times and he’s had enough.

If that’s the case, then you should know
that.

And if it IS the case, then do as J.J. says.

Ride him around on a loose rein for a bit.

Give the horse back his head.

You’d prefer to have control of your head too
if you were mad, right?

It’d be like someone gettin’ in your face
and pointin’ their finger and nagging you.

How would you like that?

But if they left you alone, you could calm
down and soon get back to work.

Do you see how important and valuable that
is to know?

Good.

Now if you want to know more good stuff, you
must see J.J.’s information if you haven’t already.

Just click on the following:

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Now before I forget, you might want to
know the answer to the riddle I posed at the beginning
of this email.

The riddle was:  What gets bigger the more
you take away from it?

The answer:  A hole

Now that you know the answer, it seems easy
right?

That’s what you’re shooting for with horses.

Keep working with them.

Keep at them.

You will just get better and better.

And you will get better faster by learning
what others teach.

http://horsetrainingresources.com/dvd-jjrydberg.html

Ok… that’s it for today.  Stay safe around your horses!

Charlie

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The Dog With No Teeth – Wasted Fear with Horses

“The Dog With No Teeth – Wasted Fear with Horses”

There’s a very emportant horse topic
you need to understand.

And that is…teaching your horse to
conquer his fear of those horse eating monsters.

One thing you gotta understand is this.

It’s not just the horse that needs the
help – it’s also his rider.

After all, a rider who’s not confident
can unwittingly encourage a horse to escalate
his fear.

Then a wreck is sure to happen.

Part of helping a horse overcome these
fears is also YOU overcoming yours.

It goes like this.

You have the brains.

Your horse has the brawn.

You have reasoning power.

Your horse does not – he reacts and
responds.

He doesn’t think like you and I.

Where you and I see a plastic bag rolling
across the prairie…he instantly thinks “THREAT”.

We tend to get a little miffed when the
horse gets scared at these seemingly harmless
things.

But, isn’t it fair that the horse can
get scared?

You get scared at things you don’t
understand, right?

So do I.

But therein lies the key.

And that is this.

You, me, and the horse get scared at things
we don’t understand.

Fear of the unknown.

Once we understand it, it doesn’t have the
power over us it once did.

There’s a great story about a little boy
who used to walk home from school every day.

But there was a problem he had.

There was a house he had to pass by every
day to go to school and get home.

The problem was that house was home to
a dog that would bark, snarl, and run after the
little boy every time he passed by the house.

Day after day the boy would sweat bullets
knowing he’d have to pass the house at a dead run
to avoid getting bitten.

One day he decided he’d had enough.  He
was sick of running all the time.

This time…today…he was going to face
the dog.

No more running.

As he approached the house, his heart rate
increased.  He was feeling the fear.

He started walking past the house.

He could hear that dog coming.

He started to run but then remembered today
he was going to face the dog.

He took a deep breath and turned around to
face the dog.

The dog stopped dead in his tracks and barked
at the boy like a crazed arsonist.

Then the little boy noticed something
astonishing.

The dog had no teeth.

That dog couldn’t have punctured a balloon.

The boy realized that all this time he was
scared of something that could not have hurt him.

In a way, that’s how you want your horse
to understand the spooky objects.

We want him to understand they have no
teeth either and that they won’t harm him.

But it’s up to you to lead him and get him
understanding this.

Will you ever get him fearless of everything?

Likely not.

But you stay safest when he’s looking to you
for help and guidance and work with him to make him
calmer and calmer.

That means you have to step up.

That means you have to boost your confidence
too.

That means when he freaks out that you can’t.

You have to take control and get him back
to you.

You can learn a great deal of how to do this
with your horse if you work him through an obstacle
course.

As I’ve said past emails, Vickie
Weigel set one up for us to film a while back.

I described how she starts with
poles and moves them closer together
as the horse gets more comfortable with them.

As the poles move closer together, your horse
has to look where to put his feet.

And remember this.

When the poles are closer together, he sees
one obstacle – not several poles.

All they see is the white on the ground and he
doesn’t know if it’s going to open up and swallow him
or not.

Thus, your job is to let him know it’s okay
and you’re secure with everything.

Again, this is the very stuff that Vickie shows
in her DVD on helping your horse conquer his horse-eating
monsters.

If you want to know more about it, click on the
following:

Read More About Horse Eating Monsters HERE

OK… that’s it for today.  Stay safe out there!

Charlie

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Two Effective Horse Training Rules You Should Know

“Two Effective Horse Training Rules You Should Know”

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“Charlie – are you for real?”

I got a call from a skeptical wanna-be customer this
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Anyway – Ed said he’s been burned online before and
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And you know what – I don’t blame him for a moment.
Lord knows there plenty of folks out there ready to
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We’ve been online now for 3 years and have many
hundreds of satisfied customers and folks who get
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I was able to calm Ed’s concerns and he went ahead and
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Laura from NY ordered the Jesse Beery course and
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Folks – we’ll do our best to ship everything on the
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Back to our tip:

“Two Effective Horse Training Rules You Should Know”

It’s what breaks down the bond between you
and your horse.

It’s called…

“Frustration”

Frustration leads to anger.

Anger makes the horse training thing
nearly impossible.

And the thing is, it’s not just anger
from you.

Your horse can get mad too.

Just cuz he’s a horse doesn’t mean he
won’t get miffed at you.

I’ve often thought if a horse could
speak English, he’d stop, look back at me and
ask…

“What **BLEEEEP!** are
you doin’ back there?!”

But since he can’t talk English, we
have to be aware of his language.

A swishing tail.

A bobbing head.

Ears.

And so on.

But here’s the thing.

When we filmed J.J. Rydberg he said:

“When you run into problems, go
back to the basics, soften up
on the way you ride him.  Forcing
him will make it worse.”

So…that’s Rule #1.

Soften up, go back to the basics, and
don’t try to force him because it’s akin to
dousing a fire with gasoline.

As an example, if you’re riding a
horse and you tap your leg on his shoulder
to ask him to move away from it…and he
doesn’t…then thumping him harder, faster,
and gettin’ mad will make it worse.

So think back to Rule #1: Soften
up, go back to the basics, and don’t try
to force him.

Think of it like this.

If you didn’t get what someone was
trying to tell you and they started smackin’
you…do you REALLY think you’d try to
understand what they’re trying to tell you?

Don’t know about you, but if I was
gettin’ thumped on and I didn’t know why and
it kept getting worse…I’d bite back.

Never mind about trying to do what
was being asked of me.

This is one of J.J.’s rules he reveals
in his DVD.  If you want to know more about
him, click on the following:

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His second rule is this.

If your horse is mad, just ride him
around.

It’s like letting off steam – or as
us humans call it…”venting”.

Just think to yourself,
“I don’t need to fight him.”

Besides, if you fight him, who do you
think is going to win?

You?

Or the 1200 pounds of bone, muscle,
and raw emotion?

Get J.J. Rydberg’s DVD HERE

That’s it – stay safe out there!

Charlie

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